Can We Cuddle?
Baby
You and I have been dating for awhile now
and the warmth of your smile
has slowly melted away the ice cold barriers that once surrounded my heart
I never thought I would fall in love again
but I often find myself missing you when we're apart
So I want to invite you to come over tonight
maybe we can have a movie marathon
you don't have to wear a thong
you can keep your clothes on
I'm not interested in a sex marathon
Tonight
I want us to caress without getting undressed
I enjoy sex
but I don't view you as a sexual conquest
I want us to take our time and build a relationship based on trust
not sex or lust
because I’m slowly coming to believe that you are my soul mate
and anything worth having in life is worth the wait
I'm a man who understands the importance of patience
I know you’re tired of dealing with men who act like mentally ill patients
tired of dealing with men who take you on a cheap date
then act like an ape
when you refuse to lay in-between their sheets and fornicate
woman
I'm here to let you know that you're worth the wait
My last relationship taught me an important lesson
a beautiful relationship takes time to bloom
which is why I don't want us to rush into having sex too soon
because the seeds of a successful marriage have to be sown in the mind room
so it can continue to blossom outside of the bedroom
So beautiful lady will you accept my invite?
Can we cuddle tonight?
let’s lay on my sofa with our clothes on
we don’t have to get naked to build a bond
we can watch The Best Man
and afterwards hold hands
while listening to our favorite love songs
Right now our friendship is purely platonic
although I won't deny that there is a physical attraction
but I don’t want sex to become a distraction
because with you
I’m seeking so much more than a few nights of sexual satisfaction
Honestly
I'd rather have you as a friend for a lifetime
than risk losing our friendship after a one night stand
because in you I see a friend for life
a future wife
and I’m hopeful that I'm the right man to wear your wedding band
I’m not trying to rush into sex
and lust might get in the way if we both got undressed
so let’s just cuddle tonight
because honestly
I get more pleasure from you when just lay your head on my chest
Can we cuddle tonight?
snuggle in front of the fireplace
you can come over
we'll lay on my sofa
and we can watch a Tyler Perry movie while we embrace
There’s nothing wrong with having someone to hold
when nights get cold
I like the way we prepare meals together
I like the way our friendship feeds each others soul
I’m not trying to rush into sex
I don’t want our relationship to end the way it did with my ex
I don’t want our future marriage to lead to divorce
So let’s take it slow and become best friends before we begin to have sexual intercourse
Someone recently asked me if I could see myself getting married
and sleeping with the same woman for the rest of my life?
I replied that without my soul mate
I would suffer from a lifetime of sleepless nights
if I couldn't cuddle next to my wife!
So let’s cuddle tonight
I really like you
so I'm not trying to one night you
I'm trying to wife you
and plus my mama likes you
Maybe we can watch Love and Basketball
I know that's your favorite DVD
or watch Coming to America and enjoy a romantic night of comedy and intimacy
I’ll do whatever it takes to show that I’m not out to hurt you
I'll even watch the Color Purple
but if you look like Ceelie
I might have to pass on cuddling tonight
and tell you I have a curfew!
lol
You know I'm just being silly
but I really want to become your best friend
I want to prove that I'm not like those other men
who hurt you in the past
lied to you and hid their ulterior motives
just to get a piece of ass
I think it's ridiculous
how nowadays people are so quick to be promiscuous
I believe that nothing worth having in life
ever comes to quick or easy
and I promise when we make love
I won’t cum too quick or easy!
And if you decide to spend the night
I'll make you my famous sweet potato pancakes
and cook you breakfast in the morning like Lorenz Tate did for Nia Long in Love Jones
So will you accept my invite?
will you come over to my place
so that we can cuddle tonight?